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Fuck replying to these assholez

Sounds like a good idea. Because the asshole that likes me is a fucking stalker and expects me to text him, comes to show me he is not only a stalker but i believe a player.he likes putting his dick in more than one cunt

Got married 32 yrs ago and in pre marital therapy I said many times I was against strippers. I say it’s cheating. He agreed and said doesn’t understand why guys do that etc. we agreed no strippers. Well about 9 months after marriage I found out he had lied and he did have one. I left him and a few days he talked me back fast forward to now I found out he had an affair and during our marriage he was going to strip clubs behind my back. I am more mad about that than the affair. Don’t know why. But my question is I think he hurt me on purpose. What do you think

If a man RESPECTS & TRUSTs me- that's sexy ❤❤❤❤❤❤

That eye contact thing doesn't work on guys who aren't thirsty when i see women try that on me at the gym i ignore them

When an emotionally broken man is using a woman, he’ll show these signs: - he avoids truly deep and emotionally vulnerable conversations - he's inconsistent - he only contacts you when he needs/wants something - he doesn't REALLY include you in his life (it's all an illusion/fantasy) - he avoids commitments/labels - he makes you feel guilty/crazy/needy - he doesn't truly support you or your goals (in any real and tangible way) So, If he pulls away, give him a push... Let him go! 1) Never EVER be afraid of losing him. You are the Divine feminine. Let him fear losing YOU! 2) Have an EXTREMELY low tolerance for ANY bad behavior... AVOIDANT or NARCISSIST? Let's be real. It's irrelevant. They both behave the same. The damage they do is the same. The trauma they cause is the same. FUCK THEM BOTH. So, When there’s a disagreement, an argument, a conflict, some bullying, disrespect, boundaries being crossed etc... someone will inevitably, most likely, be disappointed in me... So, I engage in each and every situation in a way that ensures, that the person disappointed in me, NEVER ENDS UP BEING ME! I aim to never repress, never suppress. I aim to never lose parts of myself. Radical honesty only: 100% of the time. Always, all ways. AND REMEMBER: to test if ANY relationship is healthy - you've got to judge the relationship on its bad days, not on its good ones!

tnx! this information will help lots of people, my sister is one of them.

He’s not too busy. No one ever is. The busiest people ALWAYS text back and check in. They even text one word responses such as okay, if needed. Anyone can do that. You should never have conversations over text. Never send long messages. Never engage him over text. He needs to call and take you out, like a grown up. If the only way he can talk to you via call or by meeting, then that’s what he’ll do. So don’t reward conversations over text. It’s immature and lame.

I’d rather spend time falling in love with a man I like back. Love and success are the biggest revenge. I’ll always get the opportunity to take revenge for what was done to me, for 10 years, and when that day comes, I’ll take it 🌸 Karma always gets people but I don’t mind setting it in motion 🌸

At this age, I don’t have a problem with moving fast at all. So me going by my timeline is super fast.

Openness, vulnerability and presence is what men like in women. It makes them put down their guard and relax. A woman who is busy can’t be vulnerable and present. You can’t have a relationship with her because she can’t invest in the relationship, whether it’s real or an act, she’s not present. Dating without investment is a fling. Dating with investment is what leads to marriage irrespective of duration. A solid man who wants to marry you, will consistently invest in you during the dating period. He is prepared to invest in you for life. That’s how some people get married within 2-8 weeks. If he doesn’t invest in you during the dating period, he’s not looking for marriage. That’s obvious. His omissions speak for themselves.

I love this advice 🌸 because I believe it and follow it wholeheartedly. I never judge people on the past. If they backstab, disrespect, betray, ghost or withdraw investment in the present, I’m done. I don’t even question my decision ONCE. I have so much clarity and I am unapologetic about it 🌸 if it’s a man, I’m already done and ready for the next. Until I don’t meet someone who I like back, is consistent and popping the question, single, dating and looking 🌸 because that’s what sane people do. You teach people how to treat you by how you respond to their behaviour. If a man ghosts you in the start, he’ll continue it into the relationship and marriage, if you allow it, accept, don’t call it out or accept it despite calling him out on it. Then you’ll get divorced for not leaving early on. I cannot believe that there are people, who think that have something going on with someone who literally doesn’t contact them for days, weeks, months or even YEARS. Imagine!!!! The answer is OBVIOUS. It’s a NO! No interest, no response and no reciprocation. She/he does not want you. It’s over. It’s not on. Next 🔛

This is amazing mature advice which actually works. You have to have a mental deadline. Ineffective and immature people would say that you’re writing the person off too fast, that you’re hot and cold or that you’re indecisive. Not at all. You respond based on the persons actions and words. If he has pulled away, you have NO choice but to pull away as well. He doesn’t want contact. You have to respect that. That’s not indecisive on your part. It’s smart, intuitive and it means that you can effectively read situations because it’ll end up in a hot and cold unstable situation with no future. That’s the most immature thing to end up in. I’ve never understood people who break up, make up and repeat the cycle. Or date, not date then date the same person again only to not date, again. They accustom themselves to toxic unstable patterns and end up in vicious cycles. That’s not normal behaviour. One break up is the final break up. Cutting contact is final. You’ll have an unnecessarily bad break up which could have been avoided, you won’t be on good terms and you’ll be single weeks and months from now, if you don’t stop the pattern early on. Never contact a man who isn’t consistent in his communication or who doesn’t respond positively. Never think that he’s your boyfriend if he does it after a date, he’s not. It’s just a date. Men need to understand this as well. If a girl doesn’t respond, she doesn’t want a relationship. If she doesn’t respond after a date, she’s not your girlfriend. You’re single. You can’t bombard her. She hasn’t left a door open for you to contact her.

Men complain about one habit but then complain about the opposite habit at the same time. Once, there were in laws who complained about their DIL who was talkative but at the very same time complained about the DIL who was quiet and less talkative. Some men are like that too. They’ll complain if you’re social and complain if you’re not. Such men are confused and have no clarity. Get rid of them. If men want women who are open and honest, then stop whining and telling women to change themselves. Appreciate women for WHO they are and accept them for it so that they’re honest to themselves and you. There’s no bigger turn off than a person who’s physically present but mentally absent. It’s rude and immature. Unless there’s an accident or death, stop using your phone. Nothing is important. People pretend that they have important things to do but they don’t. It’s nonsense. Learn to be present. It’s mature. Now, there are middle aged people who keep their phones on the table and tune out randomly when millennials are respectful enough to give their undivided attention everywhere they go.

The last part about looks is spot on. There’s an important habit to look out for which is that men and women, who place value on personality actually notice small acts of kindness, a warm heart, the support you offer others and the things you do for others whereas shallow and superficial people, will never notice such acts irrespective of how non superficial they may claim to be. They also obsess over looks, what you wear and your habits rather than your personality or character. For instance, they’ll slut shame you for wearing a tight dress but they won’t notice your acts of kindness, genuineness or character. This is important. This habit in people, is a toxic trait and red flag 🚩 such people are superficial irrespective of how simply they are dressed or what they claim.

Safety, security, reliability and investment consistently. If a man is wishy washy, appears then disappears, meets you then disappears for weeks or months or texts then stops, then it’s obvious that he’s not your guy and that you’re both single. I’ve never heard of a girl/guy who’s interested but doesn’t reciprocate or respond within due time. Even one word responses in the worst of situations office such as funeral, meeting, work, hospital, periods, sleepy or whatever. Or dinner at friends, text later, call later or whatever. Seriously, we all know better. I can’t believe that there are girls/guys who ASK if no response, contact, no reciprocation and ghosting means that someone is interested. The answer is obvious. It’s a NO. Even if they text or call weeks or months later, it’s just to pass their time, see if you’ll respond, see if they have you where they want you or if you’re “available” for them. They’re not genuine or serious. They’re fooling around and wasting your time.

People often confuse friendship rules with relationships. Yes, there are acquaintances who you don’t text and call. Some friends you don’t text and call as often as you used to. For instance, if you move to a new country time differences can mean that you text and call less. BUT genuine people, at the very least, leave the last conversation in a positive manner and you KNOW that you are on good terms. You DM one another, congratulate one another, etc. BUT a man who wants to date or marry you, will not have gaps in communication. He will communicate consistently irrespective of time zones. He will not risk losing you to another man or not knowing where he stands with you. If he’s willing to take that risk, then he doesn’t like you enough to be exclusive, monogamous or committed. Whatever it is, it’s not serious enough for him to lock you down.

Irrespective of what some people have been through, some manager to be stable, have stable routines, stable careers and relatively stable relationships/marriages. Christian Bale cut off his family for sometime but he has been married with kids for 20+ years. That’s longer than some people who aren’t even celebrities. You can’t use the excuse of what you’ve been through all of your life. Some people are courageous and cut off their own family, if they need to. You have to make choices in life. Do you want be a daughter/son and be unhappy, or do you want to be a wife/husband with kids and be HAPPY? Results don’t lie. What have you gotten out of being a daughter/son? Are you happy? You may not know how happy you’ll be in marriage but you do know how unhappy you are being your parents child, and that’s enough to make a different decision. Some people are in a vicious cycle of self sabotage and sabotaging others. They don’t want others to have stability because they’re unstable themselves. So they deliberately cause problems and frictions for others, to say “Look! Everything isn’t always stable. There are always problems.” How is it possible that someone has lived a stable life with no need to block, delete or have regular tensions in relationships for 27 years but out of the blue, there are problems? Such people are addicted to drama on a daily basis. That’s how they pass their time. They’re not calm. They’re restless. Calm people don’t have a need to cause fake frictions in other peoples relationships. Calm people don’t cause arguments, issues, mistrust and frictions in other peoples relationships that cause them to block and delete. Reckless and restless people do that. Restless people think of drama every single day and can’t go 24 hours without it.

Love the ambassador part. Both of you represent one another and the relationship. You want someone who DOES look good in public and private, and does represent you and themselves authentically. This goes for men too. But men have to offer security, safety, reliability, and investment. Whereas women offer stability, vulnerability, openness and investment. The problem with this advice is that immature people don’t understand the context, in which this applies or the duration for which they should apply it. You can’t challenge everything all the time. The relationship itself can’t be a challenge. And you can’t challenge someone for the heck of it, continuously. People will run away from you and never talk to you again. If you base your relationship on a challenge, you’ll have to constantly play games with him to keep him interested. If you waste time challenging a grown mature man, he’ll walk away. You won’t have a relationship if you keep wasting his time playing guessing games. Any adult would be put off by that irrespective of gender. You can be mysterious and challenging without wasting time and sealing the deal early. You can only challenge someone when it’s genuine, not for the heck of it. And you can’t do it all the time in every conversation. That’s a personality issue and a negative trait. Also, if you find yourself genuinely disagreeing or arguing with someone regularly, then you’re obviously incompatible. You shouldn’t have to disagree or argue so much. It’s not supposed to be the foundation of your equation. You can’t base a solid relationship on that. It’s not normal to make it a habit. It’s poor behaviour. Again, with the trust part, naive and immature people will apply this to the wrong person and wonder why they’re not married. You’re not supposed to trust abusive people, people who you’re incompatible with or people who have rejected you or who you have rejected , to be the one for you.

As predicted, I am not a nice girl. I have boundaries, I speak up, I follow my intuition, I know that people can be bad but don’t care enough to engage them or make excuses for them, I follow no contact rule with people, I can cut people off easily without looking back and I don’t believe that a man liking me is an excuse for poor behaviour. Mind you, for 27 years, I didn’t do this regularly. It wasn’t until a psychopath who wanted to pass his boring time, wanted to show me what a doc he can be, via MY friends and family, that I started cutting them off. I’m not an abnormal weirdo who searches for things to cancel people for. By nature, I’m just like any other extroverted social person who likes to have a good time and doesn’t waste time on pessimism and doesn’t annoy people. But once I do cut someone off, like other sane people, I also don’t allow them back in. This video should be common sense to people. It shouldn’t have to be taught. People should know better. They ought to know better. It’s a put off that some people don’t. No everyone doesn’t have the same definition but everyone agrees that crossing boundaries, abusing people and violating the law is not considered moral. Even abusive people don’t like to abuse. Even people who intrude on people’s privacy don’t want theirs to be intruded in.

What a scam!!!!!!!! omg! The push pull thing is one of the biggest red flags in a relationship.

He fine ASF 🥵🥵🥵🥵

Love this 🌸 This is everything 🌸 So genuine. Exactly what a genuine and serious guy is like VS a f**kboy or jerk. Girls know the difference. I’ve known the difference forever. A genuine man will always introduce you to friends and family, and he will not waste time if he knows you’re the one. Some even seal the deal in 2 weeks. That’s how sharp their intuition is and his genuine they are. They won’t waste time. I’ve never taken douchebags who don’t invest in me seriously nor have I considered them for anything. They don’t even have potential, not that I’d date or marry potential either.

I’ve been single for 14 years. That’s ABNORMAL! For 10 years, a psycho asshole has intruded in my privacy, stalked, harassed, hacked my phone and bullied me. He has intruded in my job prospects, plan to move, dating life, love life and social life. I have lost all of my friends and haven’t met any since 2017, been unemployed for 6 years and single for 14 years. No guy has asked him for advice neither have I. He has volunteered to offer his 2 cents and tell guys what I mean, when he’s been wrong the entire time. I showed obvious interest in a lot of guys. I put the ball in their court but he wanted to be the self appointed middleman, who stopped my love life and wasted time commenting on what I meant. He has asked all of the guys not to text, call or take me out. Told them not to invest in me or value me. He has told all SERIOUS men not to invest in me thereby playing me and wasting my time. They aren’t the men I have to be weary of. They came with good intentions about were told to detour and play me. They didn’t make me fall into the wrong hands. He did. He is the wrong hands that ruined my life. He wasted my time and he encouraged others to do the same. How is it possible that all other girls who are dating or married, are all doing well but I’m not? No one is doing as bad as I am. Single life didn’t work for me. It’s none of his business. It’s not him they fancy. Its me. And it’s between them and I. Not a third party intruder. He’s cringe as hell and it’s never occurred to him how cringe he appears. He passes his time being a dick and c**k blocker. He has wasted 10 years or 1 DECADE of my life, committing crimes against me. He has gained nothing out of it.

Any man who doesn’t meet you, text, call or invest in you, is NOT interested. You’re not number anything on the list. At best, you’re a piece of entertainment which he tunes in to once in a blue moon, when he’s bored, by asking mutual friends to text you. The girl who doesn’t get any effort, investment, attention, vulnerability face to face and doesn’t experience him face to face, is the one who has NO place in his life. You are not a priority. Anyone who tells you to wait or that the man will show up, is leading you on and lying to you. A man who hasn’t even met you or asked for your number, will never take you out, date you or marry you. Listening to your private conversations with girls and asking girls to forward your messages, is not a sign of interest or effort. That’s him being bored and passing time. That’s not a genuine or serious step towards anything. He’s just playing around filling his time. A man who’s serious and interested, won’t even contact other people concerning you. He’ll ensure that he has direct contact with you. That’s his first priority. He won’t allow middlemen. Only guys who are fooling around include middlemen. Anyone who expects you to show commitment to an idea or fictitious person, is disingenuous and doesn’t respect you enough to tell you what your reality is. They are playing you too. They don’t want you to date and get married. They don’t want you to be happy. They want you to be single, delusional and abnormal. They want to lead you on. They’re not genuine. You are definitely single. Ask any guy you know. He’ll say the exact same thing. In fact, he’ll tell you the guy is wasting your time. No guy can assume that you want time unless you have said to his face. He can’t make assumptions when he hasn’t even met you.

Classy people are also surrounded by classy people. Classy people are not trashy and will not tolerate trashy behaviour. It’s against their code of conduct. This means that your environment is very important. The classiest men and women, also come from classy families OR they have classy friends. You can be classy but you also need to be surrounded by people who understand that you are. For instance, if you’re eloquent, you can’t practice your eloquence if you’re surrounded by people who don’t understand it. If you’re surrounded by people who commit crimes against you and play you everyday, and don’t even understand what f off means, then you can’t be eloquent. You can’t be classy with your words or actions when dealing with criminals. The same goes for being well dressed. If people don’t understand that what you’re wearing is classy, then it doesn’t register. That’s why it’s important to reject the wrong company and accept the right company, who you can be yourself in front of and display your best talent in front of without being misunderstood or judged. So, if you’re a psycho go to a mental ward. If you’re not, find your own kind.

Im still in the hooks because of my son. Ill lose my son... eventually... and its painful to see the pain hes inflicting on my son. But.... the courts believe both parents should be a part of the kids life. Sometimes i think our courts are just broken. Yahoo to the so called land of the free. Im trapped here. So run ladies and gentlemen! Stay away from the control freaks! You deserve better!

"I hope I never lose him" by mysterious me. I hope I never lose his gaze. I hope I never lose his smile and laughter. I hope I never lose his great intentions of being in love. I hope I never lose his will for life. I hope I never lose his handsome scent. I hope I never lose his touch. I hope I never lose his seriousness. I hope I never lose his time. I hope I never lose his mind. I promise his heart is not in any risk/danger as long as he let's me hold it. 😇🤍💙💜 😂😂😂😊😊😊That was fun!

What IAM doing here😂

Worst advice ever.

Love this video. Thanks for making and sharing.

What do guys even mean by space? My now ex asked for space but still wanted to talk via text aboutvlught hearted stuff so I took it as him messing with my feelings and broke up with him. Does space just mean not seeing each other in person?

With my trauma and history.. I'm like 'is he cheating? Did he fall asleep? He's never fallen asleep this early before... why wouldn't he tell me he's tired? He doesn't work tomorrow" I'm literally laying awake unable to sleep because I actually do like him and when I like someone my bpd goes all over the place. I want a healthy relationship but this shit is hard, and I don't know what to do.. we were supposed to go to his parents tomorrow night and this makes me want to pull out of these plans.

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This is for mature men who have grown up irrespective of their age. It’s not for boys who only care how hot you are, don’t notice routine, responsibility or consistency.

I’m still baffled by people who think that men’s standards matte to me MORE than my own. They think that if the guy shows up or wants me, that’s all that’s important. Uhm, NO! What matters to me is what I want and how I am treated. Him wanting me or showing up isn’t a sign of how much values me. His effort and investment is. Last year, I had someone encourage me to be available last minute, for someone who’s wishy washy, doesn’t keep contact, hasn’t even shown interest and cancelled on me before. That makes no sense. I didn’t do it. I value myself too much.

This 🌸 a wishy washy man will never play games. He’ll never be hot and cold. Never go without contact or leave you in the dark. He’ll explain himself before you even ask him. He’ll hold himself accountable before you do 🌸 He’ll never go days, weeks, months or YEARS without talking to you. Because he’s a genuine man who what’s a genuine connection. So stop telling women to initiate contact, show interest or be available and open to men who have ghosted them, not acted on their hints or left them hanging high and dry. They’re not genuine nor do they want genuine connection. What they want is their problem but high value women don’t need to reciprocate, respond or be available for them.

This is husband material 🌸 This is a totally different situation because the relationship is solid, stable, respectful and reciprocal. He’s present physically and emotionally, contacts you, meets you and is reliable. He’s falling in love slowly. I wouldn’t want such a guy but I know that such a man, can very well the right one for someone. I want the type who seals the deal fast but falls in love slowly . Another type of husband material 🌸 This VS a man who you’ve never met, been on a date with, asks girls or relatives to see you, talk to you and send gossip back to him, claiming he’s talking it slow, is simply not the same. He’s not taking it slow. He’s killing time and passing time because he’s bored. He’s a ghost. He’s not investing time, effort, energy or resources into you. He doesn’t like you. You’re just a back up, reserve or piece of entertainment for him. High value women don’t pay attention to men who don’t invest in them and high value women don’t offer boyfriend/husband benefits of loyalty, commitment or respect to men who don’t invest in them. You are not entitled to commitment by sitting in your house and listening to a girls private conversations, due to boredom. That doesn’t make you a boyfriend or husband. It makes you a bored f boy who wants entertainment to kill time. She is not yours. She is not your girlfriend, fiancé or wife. You are not in a position to react to anything she does, who she talks to, where she goes or what she does with her life. You are not in a position to be jealous, insecure, anxious or needy with her because you are not her boyfriend or husband. You cant even have relationship problems or discuss them with her because you’re not in a relationship. You’re single. She has not chosen you. High value women don’t choose low value and low effort men. High value women do not offer commitment, loyalty and relationship benefits to men who do not invest in them. This means that you have not been chosen. You have been rejected.

YES! I always say this too. NO sane man, who likes you, can ignore your hints and signals. He’ll jump at the opportunity without wasting a split second. Any man who takes weeks, months or years claiming he’ll show his face because he’s never met you, or claim that he’ll act on your hints and signals, is wasting your time. He’s not going to show you his face or meet you. He’s not going to date or marry you. Men who want you, invest in you. You teach people how to treat you by how you respond. If you give in to a man who’s hot and cold, available and unavailable, then he’ll get accustomed to treating you that way and he won’t value you. He knows he can get away with it. He will then become unreliable. I don’t understand HOW some people think that they can have stable, loving and healthy relationships with wishy washy people. How can you even start a relationship or marriage with such a person? What will happen when you need him/her during a tough time? They won’t help you, support you, hug you or be emotionally or physically present.

First things first ☝🏻 MEET the girl face to face. Get her number. Text, call and meet again and again. The obvious. When a girl is showing interest, available, open, responding, contacting you, willing to meet you, talking about the kind of guys she is friend to with to give you a hint of what kind of man she talks to, tells you what kind of guys she has rejected and flirts either you. THAT is the time to make a move. Not one day before and not one day after. The perfect time is WHEN she’s interested. That’s obvious. NOT meeting her face to face. Trying to know her through people like an insane delusional person. Ghosting, cancelling, blocking, being hot and cold, playing games, being unavailable, being unreliable, wishy washy, and EMBARRASSING the girl when she has announced that she wants to get married and has even given people dates multiple times, told some people that it’ll happen by April/May but it does NOT happen, is NOT how you get the girl. Once you say it out loud or type it, you understand what a RED FLAG that is 🚩 Embarrassing a girl with guys not meeting her, not taking her out but wasting her time, playing her and keeping her on reserve, only for people to ask for her 10 years WHEN she’s getting married with her not being able to give an answer, is NOT how you get the girl. That’s how you show her what a fuckboy you are. High value women are not someone’s reserve, backup or temporary entertainment which they can tune in to when they’re bored without meeting her face to face, investing in her or putting in effort. You can’t invest time and effort by being an unreliable ghost, who has never met the girl. Ghosts don’t get commitment, loyalty or dates. High value women don’t pay attention to men who don’t invest in them. High value men make high investments in women they like because they hold themselves to a high standard in every area. All men invest in women they like, even the most sloppy ones. Men who don’t make investments in women, do not get a date, wife and do not get high value women. Physical presence, giving your time, being THERE and being reliable is part of investing in a woman. Accepting a woman for WHO she is and not asking her to be someone else, or conform to an idea of who you think that she should be, is the highest form of love and maturity, which makes women weak in the knees ❤️

First things first ☝🏻 MEET the girl face to face. Get her number. Text, call and meet again and again. The obvious. When a girl is showing interest, available, open, responding, contacting you, willing to meet you, talking about the kind of guys she is friend to with to give you a hint of what kind of man she talks to, tells you what kind of guys she has rejected and flirts either you. THAT is the time to make a move. Not one day before and not one day after. The perfect time is WHEN she’s interested. That’s obvious. NOT meeting her face to face. Trying to know her through people like an insane delusional person. Ghosting, cancelling, blocking, being hot and cold, playing games, being unavailable, being unreliable, wishy washy, and EMBARRASSING the girl when she has announced that she wants to get married and has even given people dates multiple times, told some people that it’ll happen by April/May but it does NOT happen, is NOT how you get the girl. Once you say it out loud or type it, you understand what a RED FLAG that is 🚩 Embarrassing a girl with guys not meeting her, not taking her out but wasting her time, playing her and keeping her on reserve, only for people to ask for her 10 years WHEN she’s getting married with her not being able to give an answer, is NOT how you get the girl. That’s how you show her what a fuckboy you are. High value women are not someone’s reserve, backup or temporary entertainment which they can tune in to when they’re bored without meeting her face to face, investing in her or putting in effort. You can’t invest time and effort by being an unreliable ghost, who has never met the girl. Ghosts don’t get commitment, loyalty or dates. High value women don’t pay attention to men who don’t invest in them. High value men make high investments in women they like because they hold themselves to a high standard in every area. All men invest in women they like, even the most sloppy ones. Men who don’t make investments in women, do not get a date, wife and do not get high value women. Physical presence, giving your time, being THERE and being reliable is part of investing in a woman. Accepting a woman for WHO she is and not asking her to be someone else, or conform to an idea of who you think that she should be, is the highest form of love and maturity, which makes women weak in the knees ❤️

All girls I know, who are married with kids, didn’t talk about loving themselves and most didn’t. Some were had just broken up. They didn’t talk about being independent, loving themselves, working on themselves or any of that nonsense. They’re all married. When a man wants you, he wants you. And if you like him back, you’ll marry him. What you’re like with another man doesn’t count because you react based on HOW you’re treated. People find love no matter what stage they’re at. Self love or not. It’s irrelevant. It doesn’t impact the outcome or the big picture. Choices and actions do.

The same goes for women rejecting men. Not every rejection is about trauma. If a woman is far out of a man’s league, he won’t have what it takes to be with her. A low value and low effort man can’t be with a high value and high effort woman.

Spot on ✨I always say that meet her, get her number, text, call and make plans. But always get rejected early because then you can move on early without wasting your time.

I’ve always known this and always said this. I refuse to be the target of people’s insecurities. I refuse to change my sensibilities, dress sense, style, accent, wants, goals and adapt to the insecurities of anyone, let alone ghosts who have never invested in me.

Exactly! Never listen to people who tell you to message girls who have excluded you, people who have blocked you randomly without the two of you arguing or stabbing each other in the back and never listen to people who tell you to initiate contact with men, who haven’t made the first move on you, or who have ghosted you. It’s on the person who initiated drama, plays games and blocks, to show that THEY no longer have a problem. It’s not the job of the other party to acquire.

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It's true what he's saying but won't matter if that's what people gonna choose in the long run lol😂